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6 powerful Nigerian worship songs to start your year

Girl listening to worship song

Happy new year!
Welcome to 2022. It will be a blessed one for you and yours in Jesus name. Today, I’m sharing 6 powerful Nigerian songs of worship to start your year.

One of my goals for this blog this year is to bless you with a list of songs at the beginning of every week to help you add to your playlist (largely gospel worship songs), and to help set the tone for your week.

What better way is there to start the year than with gratitude and worship songs to God? Below are 6 beautiful worship songs about the awesomeness of God to help your heart remains in the posture of worship as you start your year.
There are YouTube links to the songs as usual to help you find them easily.

Do you know any of these songs?

Nigerian worship songs

Olorun to lagbara Cover by Bukola Bekes

This song as originally sung by someone else I believe. But this cover by Bukola Bekes has been blessing my heart so much lately.

https://youtu.be/DADgKQnAV0g

Forever by Dunsin Oyekan
This song, like many other Dunsin Oyekan’s songs is a love-worship song to help you come closer in fellowship to God.

https://youtu.be/B_u8OqoJcC0

You looked beyond me by Yadah

This song! Beautiful!

https://youtu.be/9zMQdYSrDpo

Read- My quiet time playlist

You have done me well by Solomon Lange
This has been a chant in my mouth for weeks. God has done me well!

https://youtu.be/C7EVc84ERfo

Wonder (K’ilen folorun pe) by Jaymikee
Theme song for the movie “Abejoye”
Jaymikee produced another masterpiece in this song.

https://youtu.be/rq_nb6NGm5w

This God is too good by Nathaniel Bassey

Old but gold.

https://youtu.be/c00IJ8L0tyU

What song of worship has been ministering to you lately?

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2 Decades And Some Years, Birthday memoir – I am changing so much!

A memoir: Any form of narrative describing the personal experiences of a writer.

This twenties.
Two weeks back, I shared on my insta story how surprised I was at the fact that I am gradually, yet suddenly becoming an introvert. Someone shared a few introvert memes and I could relate with all of them.
How? Me?
The very outgoing, friendly, and excited me?

My evolving over the years has probably surprised a few, but it has shocked me most.
The past year particularly, has done so much to me. I would call it growth but I don’t want to be too generic as this isn’t what growth is to everyone. Some part, yes. But not every part.

I have become an interesting blend of the following.


Confident
5 years ago, when I was in 100 level, staying in the hostel, I used to get cheated often. Especially at the tap when girls gathered to get water.
I was never confident enough to speak up for myself when someone came to push my bucket aside and put hers.
I didn’t know how much I have changed until just last session, this year. I had gone to the tap in the hostel to get water and while I looked away, one “sister” came to sow tares among my wheat. She shifted my bucket aside and placed hers.
The swiftness with which I set her bucket aside and the confidence, directness, assertiveness, class, and grammar with which I corrected her, is one that makes me smile every time I remember. Even as I write this post.
This has happened a couple of times and the way I have handled it every single time makes me so proud of my growth. I haven’t stayed in the hostel much after 100 level so I didn’t know how much I’d changed.
Dupe, version 2016 wouldn’t have done this. I would have watched her do it upset and probably complain when she’s gone.


Less confident
I am still unable to make confrontations. If I ever do, I am forced to.
I’d rather just cry. Or walk away.
I am less confident about a lot of things in life now. Heck. My confidence in this world as a whole has dropped.
I have come to see how random and flawed this world is. I no longer hold it like a bag of rice. Maybe a cup of salt.
I now understand “never say never.”
I am quicker to listen and I now understand that may times, saying “it can never be me” is just folly and ignorance of how dynamic life can be.


Less excited.
There was a time in my life when I used to be excited about journeys. Even though I’ve always had motion sickness, I still used to be psyched about traveling back then. Whether it was by road or air. I used to pack my bags more than a month before the journey. Everyone at home used to be surprised at my energy.
Now, I pack my bags the night before I move. The only reason I don’t pack it last minute is because I want to be organized and not forget anything. if not, it’s just vibes and inshaAllah.


Excited
Hearing that someone got healed of an ailment, got a job, found something they were looking for, became saved, has clarity in life.
These things used to be “normal good news” to me. Nothing extraordinary.
But now. They’re such a big deal to me. I get extra happy and excited when I hear that someone made a breakthrough. I literally take up the happiness like it’s me it happened to.


Money-conscious
When we were teenagers, I used to wonder what my big sister saw in money that she was always quick to save every money gift we got in her brown purse and keep it away.
I would wonder why she liked to have money even if she wasn’t going to spend it. She just wanted to keep her money, use it for whatever she wanted, and give whoever she wanted.
I was different. Every money that came my way was for instant spending. Never allowed to get cold (as e dey hot). I didn’t rate money at all. I wasn’t mindful of it.
Now, (laughs) I am more sensible regarding money (to put it in the mildest way possible). I realize how much of a tool it is, a means to an end, and I don’t joke with it. Money to buy the good things of life.
Money to make people experience a better standard of living.
Money to sponsor courses that matter in life.
Money to give access to options.

I am now money conscious. It is a tool and a defence.

Friendly
The friendly child I was, growing up, is now returning. The child that my teenage years suppressed in a bid to be “cool and bougie.”
This child has now returned. She is daily finding expression and getting bolder. She generously gives smiles and complements to strangers she meets, she seizes every opportunity to give both tangible and intangible things.


Unfriendly
The walls I built around me are tall and thick. Almost like Jericho’s.
I still have not found a way to let friends fully in. Not because I hate people. But because I love my space. A little too much.
Because when I’m alone, with no one else but God, I can be vulnerable and completely be myself.


Expressive. Reserved. Assertive. Reasonable. Considerate. Factual. Critical (in my thinking). Intentional. I could write on, on each of these, and the many things that I am. But I am tired from eating too much cake.

I am still fighting some enemies; procrastination, inconsistency, very short attention span, and indiscipline in some areas. But this is the year I slay them.

I have become some things. I will UNbecome some of it and because more of others.
Ultimately, I am becoming.
God’s model woman.

Happy birthday Dupe.
In some years to come, if Jesus tarries in coming, I will be back to read this memoir from my 2021 birthday. My musings after spending 2 decades and some years on earth.

This post is dedicated to my friend and brother Bukunmi ❤. I miss you everyday but even more today because my birthdays were always a big deal to you. You always did the most. You’d celebrate me, pray for me, buy presents and remind me about purpose and destiny. You have left this world of sin. You are now a cloud of witness. I will keep moving, smashing goals, making Jesus proud, and walking in purpose and the Glory of God. Because I know it is the Will of God and what you’d have wanted.

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Why should I praise God or give thanks in hard times?

“Why should we praise God in hard times?
“I’ve heard preachers say many times that “in all things, give thanks.’ Why? I am a believer but I don’t get the rationale behind it. If I am in pain or an unpleasant event befalls me, shouldn’t I be allowed to cry, complain, and ask God questions? Why should I resort to giving thanks for a situation that makes me sad?”

This was the question I was asked by a dear friend sometime ago. I responded to the question and decided to share it here too, for people who may have the same question on their minds.

Generally as believers, we are encouraged and instructed to always give thanks to God. In all situations. Even hard ones.

This world is a flawed and imperfect one, and there are times when even as a believer, you have to deal with sad events and unpleasant happenings.
When this happens and other believers encourage you to give thanks regardless, it may come off as insensitive to you for obvious reasons.

You may feel like your feelings are being invalidated and you are expected to become super human and be separated from your emotions.

This is not so. There are specific reasons why we are encouraged to give thanks and praise God during storms. It not an easy thing to do. But gaining more understanding on the reasons, benefits, and how to do it is the first step forward. If you’d like to read on how to praise God during the storm and the benefits of doing so, kindly indicate in the comments below.
However for today, let us delve into WHY?

Why should I praise God or give thanks in hard times?

  • Because the Bible encourages us to do so
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
    Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Scripture, read with revelation from the Holy Spirit is the believer’s manual for life. The Bible is the wisest perspective to life because it is God’s perspective.
So when it encourages us to do a certain thing, we are sure it is for our own benefit and the Glory of our God.

Of course, for many people, “scriptures say so” is not enough reason. Especially depending on the severity of their adversity, their rootedness in the faith, and depth of their curiosity.

  • To show the enemy the superiority of God over that situation.

It is only logical to focus and give priority to the most pressing and important issue at the moment. When you’re going through hard times, ordinarily, your whole attention should be focused on it. Giving your attention to thanksgiving by choosing to praise God in hard times, downplays the power of that problem, grief, disappointment or what ever it is. It is a message to the enemy that you are a victor regardless of the temporary setback.

  • To give strength to other believers going through hard times

“I will glory in the Lord;
Let the afflicted hear and rejoice.
Glorify the Lord with me;
Let us exalt his name together.”
Psalm 34:2-3 (NIV
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Choosing to praise God in the storm encourages other believers around us who may be going through similar challenges or may go through such in future. It helps build their faith and strengthen their trust in God.

  • To show the superiority of your love for God over situations

Praising God during the storm is a reaffirmation that you love God more than these.
It is proof that his blessings are not the only reasons you love and praise him.

  • To remind yourself that you trust God and He causes all things to work together for your good.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
And saves those who are crushed in spirit.
The righteous person may have many troubles,
But the Lord delivers him from them all;
He protects all his bones,
Not one of them will be broken.”
Psalm 34:17-20 (NIV)

When you praise God regardless of what “reality” is saying, you are reminding yourself to keep trusting and believing in God. You are
If you choose to dwell in that pit of sadness, you’re giving room for the enemy to more than before, overwhelm you and make you further sink into depression.
But choosing praise and thanksgiving raises you far above these vices of the enemy and places you in a higher place. A place where your praise can be used as a weapon against your enemies.

As they began to sing and praise, the Lord set ambushes against the men of Ammon and Moab and Mount Seir who were invading Judah, and they were defeated. 2 Chronicles 20:22 (NIV)

(This is a benefit of praising in the storm. I’m getting ahead of myself. Let me know in the comments if you’d like the blogpost on Benefits of praising God in the Storm).

But before then, has this post blessed you? Have you been through a difficult time recently?
What other reasons can you add? Let us communicate in the comments below.