There are several fun activities that Christian couples can engage in, in their Christian relationship. It doesn’t have to be something against your faith.
People often think that Christian relationships are boring but that is because they are ignorant of what to do to spice things up.
A Christian relationship honors the Lord. And it is a relationship driven by the love of Christ and the principles in the Bible.
But being a Christian does not stop you from having fun in your relationship.
God has designed relationships to be interesting and enjoyable yet godly.
So if you are a Christian couple, and you feel your relationship is getting boring and monotonous by the day, then this article is for you.
But before I move further, I would advise you to dispose of the mindset that makes you feel you don’t need to have fun in your relationship because you think it will compromise your faith.
No, it won’t. When it is done according to the principles in the Bible.
10 Exciting Activities To Do In A Christian Relationship
10. Have Study Time.
This is one activity that can help you both to hold a good conversation while you study.
You can schedule a time to study the Bible and other spiritual, transformational, and leadership books.
And you can both share your thoughts on what you have read. This is so exciting and fun because you are both learning and enjoying each other’s company.
9. Engage In Exercise.
Exercise is so important if you want to live healthy and long.
You can use an exercise app at home, register at a gym and play a fitness game. You can also go jogging in the morning or evening with your partner.
It could also be in the form of painting a room, cleaning out the basement, or planting a garden.
Exercise is a fun activity for couples because it helps them spend time together while still maintaining good shape and health.
This is easier for married couples because they live together.
However, dating couples too can engage in this but with boundaries because they don’t live together and should not engage in activities that promote inordinate desires.
8. Pray Together.
I have heard people say prayer is boring. And I am amazed because prayer is one way of building intimacy.
God is so happy when couples pray together in love.
You can create a time when you both will come together to pray. You can write down your prayer request and pray about it together.
When prayers are answered, it brings so much joy to the couple.
7. Take A Walk.
Taking a walk with your partner may look so simple, but it helps you both draw closer.
In a society that tends to be on the run, taking a walk requires you to slow down and enjoy life together. This is so therapeutic.
Try walking with your spouse in the evening, or before or after dinner, as a way of reflecting on the day, having a wonderful conversation, or reconnecting away from the busyness of life.
6. Play Games.
There are a variety of fun and intelligent games that can help you build a productive and smart mind.
We have Phone games, scrabble, Board games, and Bible games. You can name as many as you can.
If you both are game lovers, then, bravo. You can create time to play games.
5. Go On Dates.
Going on a date with your spouse helps you get to know them better.
Christian couples should go on dates if they need to spice up their relationship.
Whoever told you that Christian couples can’t go on dates has lied to you.
You can go on interesting dates, visit beautiful places, visit the museum, visit a beautiful restaurant to eat, discuss and then enjoy the moment.
Every moment spent with your partner is wonderful and divine.
4. Get Your Partner A Gift.
When it comes to getting gifts in a relationship It is not just about buying something expensive or big.
It is about trying to know what your partner likes and getting it for them. Something they can cherish.
Be creative when you want to present/ give them gifts. You decide to put it somewhere and trick them to check it or you can make it a surprise.
3. Send Romantic Text Messages.
Most people think text messages are so modern. They have gotten it wrong.
Who doesn’t like being reminded about how awesome they are? Definitely, not your partner.
Be intentional about sending your partner romantic text messages.
Just imagine the smile on your partner’s face when they read romantic text messages from you. Priceless, right?
2. Learn New Skills Together.
Learning new skills with your partner is an awesome way of spicing up the relationship.
By doing this you get to watch each other try out something new.
Taking music classes, cooking classes, writing classes, or speaking classes for instance is an excellent way of having fun in a godly relationship.
1. Reverse Roles.
I know this sounds a bit odd but switching roles is a way of having fun because you tend to know the strengths and weaknesses of your spouse.
For example, the guy has the primary role of planning dates and asking the lady out, but it can also be fun when roles are reversed.
As a lady, you can surprise your partner by planning an entire date.
And as a guy, you can decide to prepare the food.
In conclusion, sustaining a godly relationship may be challenging, coupled with the fact that there are many immoral and ungodly activities in the society.
Still, it is possible to have a godly relationship and still have fun. All you need to do is to create time to have fun.