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How I stopped Listening to Secular Music || The Origin and Power of Music and Sounds

How I stopped listening to Secular Music.

It’s foolishness to say you believe in Music and not in God or Spirits.

– Mo’

Please note that before I was finally able to stop completely, I tried and failed many times. When an idea has not become a conviction, it’s difficult to live by it. Determination and resolve are good but not enough to maintain such a stand.

Some years back, when I was gradually being drawn to Jesus, I was painfully brought to terms with the fact that I had to let go of certain things in my life.

Prior to then, I was always updated on anything music (secular). My friends and I always had the latest tracks on our devices both audio and video. I was having the time of my life or so I thought.

The kinds of songs we listened to were super catchy and captivating but something always puzzled me then; the songs got old very fast. A song could be released on a Monday and go viral so much that it was on everybody’s lips but by the next two or three Mondays, it would have become old to be replaced by another “cool music”.

For a long time, I continued like that, ignorantly.

The songs were always in my head. I subconsciously sang them even in my dreams.

I had the lyrics stored in my head and I gladly shared these songs with everyone who was interested. I had no idea how much those songs had affected me.

“Music cleanses the understanding, inspires it, and lifts it into a realm which it could not reach if it were left to itself.” — Henry War Beecher

Fast forward to much later, I began to get weary of the cool meaningless songs on my phone so I introduced gospel songs.

I challenged myself severally to get rid of the songs on my phone which were of no profit to me, songs that only painted terrible images in my head. This was hard for me mostly because of my association but God found a way to isolate me from the company I was in and I went through a thorough ” dark period” during which a lot of things happened and I met a friend/mentor who solidified the convictions I was gradually building. I had a three hour chat with this mentor and my life changed afterwards. Amongst the many things that happened to me was my deliverance from the connection I had with strange songs and sounds.

Truly, transformation of the mind is a great form of deliverance; until the ideas you have are replaced with better ones, you will never leave where you are.

I got tons of “Gospel songs” downloaded on my devices (most of which I was later to delete when I was able to discern which songs were actually gospel).

With the help of the Holy Spirit and discipline on my part, I was able to totally do away with every song that didn’t glorify God and looking back now, I wonder what made them appealing to me in the first place.

I then began to learn the power of music…

Music and Sounds

Almost every person on planet earth loves music, although music is said to have originated from Africa, people all over the world are now drawn to different kinds of music.

“Music is the mediator between the spiritual and the sensual life.” — Ludwig van Beethoven

Although, music could be defined as just sound organized in time which if not properly organized, becomes noise, there is a spiritual dimension to music.

Music and sounds are used for several purposes all over the world especially cultural and religious practices.

Music is powerful and can be used to invoke spirits ( through chants and dance), capture minds and even hypnotize people.

Music is directly related to spirits. There is hardly any spiritual practice that doesn’t involve music or sounds.

Because music carry spirits, the kind of music you listen to directly affects your intellect, psychology, emotions, behavior, mind and soul.

Music is the only medium that can transmit a man immediately from the physical realm of senses to the unseen realm. Music and sounds make us aware of the divine supernatural beings that are amongst us though unseen.

Some Christians are of the opinion that the kind of music you listen to does not affect your walk with God which is false because what invokes one spirit sends another away. A kind of music whose sound and lyrics invoke the spirit of lust or violence will definitely put off the Holy Spirit of God.

“Music should be healing; music should uplift the soul; music should inspire. There is no better way of getting closer to God, of rising higher towards the spirit, of attaining spiritual perfection than music, if only it is rightly understood.” — Hazrat Inayat Khan


People often ask me what kind of music is more spiritual: Is it Vedic mantras, Gregorian chant, devotional Bhajans, the great symphonies of Beethoven, traditional Gospel hymns, indigenous drums or even rock and roll? I usually respond by saying any music that helps reconnect us to our essence — to our inner and divine nature — is spiritual.
The spiritual nature of music cannot be defined by religion, culture or genre. Music precedes and transcends all of those frameworks. To even compare music and spirituality as if they were independent concepts feels a bit odd to me. Music is, at its essence, the sound of spirit.

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IMPORTANT KEYS AND SCRIPTURES FOR A HEALTHY CHRISTIAN RELATIONSHIP.

The world has different pictures of what an “ideal relationship” is and should be. Everyone seems to know what is required to maintain a great relationship.

Christians in love relationships ought to know that they’re different. They can’t subscribe and conform to the world’s description of “dating”.

As much as we’d love to go with everything trending, we have a blueprint and a template in the Bible.

This doesn’t mean Christian relationships are boring and no fun or that they’re rigid, monotonous and the same. No.

In fact, they’re very interesting, fun and fulfilling.

God is love so it’s only wise that His Word be our reference for Love related issues.

That you and your partner are Christians doesn’t make you both perfect. Neither does it mean the relationship will be without challenges or that your effort isn’t needed to make things work.

Painfully, I’ve watched many people in love relationships who love God and each other go their separate ways due to “unreconcilable differences”. Fights and disagreement that could have been avoided or sorted out led to huge messes that eventually erupted into something that couldn’t be fixed.

I’m not a relationship expert but from God’s Word, books I’ve read and people I’ve seen, I’ve coined out major ingredients that are very essential for a Christian relationship to thrive and scriptures in line.

Yes, you can have a happy Godly relationship with someone who loves God as much you do.

It is important you read this if you’re in a relationship to make things better and if you’re not to plan ahead.

Apart from passionately loving your partner, here are few very important keys you must know.

As you read, may your spirit he receptive and open to learn and make corrections.

Love God FIRST

A lot of people cry to God for partners, someone they can worship God and serve the purposes of His kingdom with, but as soon as that person comes walking into their life, guess what happens?

Yes, you guessed right. God is taken to the back seat.

How do you expect your “GODLY” relationship to thrive without GOD?

Matthew 22 37-39

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Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’

This is the first and greatest commandment.
And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’

Nothing and nobody should come before God, not even your partner.

Your time for God shouldn’t decrease because you got into a relationship.

Scrolling through your phone looking at their pictures shouldn’t replace flipping through your Bible to know the mind of God.

Night calls shouldn’t replace your quiet time and prayer time.

God wants you to love selflessly but He must come first in your heart and that of your partner. He is a jealous God.

When you get so caught up in the euphoric atmosphere of “being in love” that you forget God, it is only a matter of time before that love begins to fade and wane.

Sacrifice

Relationships are all about giving. The Bible tells us that God so loved the world and as a result of the love He has for us, He GAVE His only begotten son.

No relationship can thrive without sacrificial giving. You can’t always have enough for two and that is where sacrifice comes in.

The greatest proof of love is sacrifice.

Time, money, ego and more will have to be laid down for the sake of your partner. Sacrifice involves putting your partner first.

1 John 3:16 NIV: This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.

Intercession

The name of your partner should not only be in your mouth when you want to tell people of the amazing things they do. Their name should always be mentioned in your prayers.

Always pray for your partner.

They may be going through things they can’t discuss with you or fighting battles they don’t want to bother you with. Always stand in the gap and intercede. Your prayers can avert dangers they didn’t even know were looming above them.

Always pray for your relationship.

The Devil hates to see anything that looks good for God’s Kingdom so he can send in little seeds and vices in an attempt to destroy what you’re building. When you’re ignorant of his devices, little things will creep in and all of a sudden, you “don’t feel too right” about it anymore.

Accountability

“Accountability is willingness to explain your actions” – Dr Mike Murdock.

I was under a teaching during the week and the speaker said he’d been trying to teach his lady about accountability.

He said accountability starts from the little things like explaining why you missed your partner’s call or why you’re late for your meeting or date.

Being accountable, entails you acknowledging that you can’t do things anyhow and explaining why when you do.

Tolerance.

(Note that I’m not talking about abuse, harmful habits or toxic relationships)

Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. (Ephesians 4:2-3, NLT),

Many people expect perfection from others so they begin to complain and feel uncomfortable when the flaws of their partner is revealed to them.

Nobody is perfect even if they’re Christians. That your partner loves God does not make them God.

They’ll love you enough to work on certain traits you’re not comfortable with but you must also love them enough to put up with other flaws that they can’t seem to get rid of.

Forgiveness

And learn to let go.

1 Peter 4:8NIV: Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

If any party lacks the ability to forgive in a relationship, the end of the relationship is very near. Sometimes, don’t ask questions, just forgive and let go.

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. (Ephesians 4:32, NASB)

Praying together.

Matt 18:19

ESV:Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.

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ESV:For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”

Praying together is a great form of intimacy.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love does not envy,
Love does not boast,
Love is not proud.

Love

does not dishonor others,
Love is not self-seeking,
Love is not easily angered,
Love keeps no record of wrongs
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Love

always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.

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Apostle Joshua Selman + 60 Life Quotes From Him That Will Change Your Life.

It is often said that the best people to listen to are those who have already been successful accomplishing exactly what you are seeking to accomplish.

Success is easier when you learn from people who have paid the price. I read and learn from a lot of successful people particularly those who are where I want to be or close.

One person who has changed my life forever is my Father; Apostle Joshua Selman.

Apostle Joshua Selman is the President of Eternity Network International, a body that put together the meeting called “Koinonia”.

Koinonia is a fast growing ministry of about 7 years, a weekly meeting where people come to Fellowship with God. It is a place of intimacy with God, a place to experience worship, word, miracles & love.

Apostle Joshua Selman is a young indisputably anointed servant of God who is a very great voice in our generation.

He is known far and wide in Nigeria and beyond for his messages which are full of wisdom and power, little wonder his name is one of the most searched for on google after you type the word “Apostle”.

The efficacy of the messages is such that people who listen from their devices from any part of the World get healing, deliverance and miracles.

Whoever has encountered Apostle Selman can not deny that the finger of the Lord is upon Him and he is greatly anointed.

He is also known to be a man of balance. He is never too extreme or rigid; he is open to people of all tribes, culture and tradition even as he spreads the love of Christ. His messages answer many questions in the body of Christ as he trashes many issues with wisdom.

He is a successful business man dedicated to excellence.

There are thousands of quotes from Apostle Joshua Selman that transform and renew minds but in honor and celebration of his birthday which is on Monday, 25th June 2018, here are 60 quotes from Him for various aspects of your life.

Life and Success

1. The epicenter of dominion is wealth.

2. One of the keys of great people is their disloyalty to any information that does not produce results.

3. The world celebrates and rewards men of value.

4. We win in life by strategies.

5. Genuine knowledge brings liberation.

6. The proof of your unattachement to things is your willingness to let them go.

7. Action is the bridge between problems and testimonies.

8. The true secret of success lies in your understanding of kingdom mysteries.

9. You become a physical reflection of your most dominant thoughts.

10. Challenges are a proof that your current mental state has stretched its capacity.

11. The pain obtained from the place of failure Will preserve your success.

12. Every dimension of greatness has a price to be paid.

13. Kingdom wealth are resources that facilitate Kingdom advancement.

14. Through prosperity shall God’s agenda be spread abroad.

15. Something you do not know is responsible for your limitation.

16. When you achieve your desired result, it signifies an accurate application of Kingdom Principles.

17. Desire sponsors pursuit and pursuit grants access to whatever you desire.

18. It is risky to not know how to respond to life-threatening challenges.

19. The hardest person to help is a man who is resistant to change.

20. Nothing changes by itself. Time does not impact knowledge, it only reveals.

Intimacy with God

1. Intimacy with God requires making Him your priority.

2. Intimacy with God requires your willingness to be sacrificial for Him.

3. Intimacy with God is a product of time spent in His Presence.

4. Intimacy with God is the first price required for sustainable greatness.

Spirituality.

1. Spiritual growth is not determined by your longevity in the Christian Faith or regularity in church.

2. The display of the gifts of the Spirit is never an accurate measure of Spiritual growth.

3. The only entity capable of making men know God is the Holy Spirit.

4. Worship is a ladder in the Spirit. We can use it to ascend dimensions in the Spirit.

5. If Worship did not change you then you did not worship.

6. A worshipper is not a musician or a singer. He is someone who understands the dynamics of hosting God.

7. God is glorified in Kingdom advancement and not in denominationalism.

8. The infinite wisdom of God is engaged by praying in the Spirit.

9. The level of your walk with God reflects in your love for people.

10. Impartation is the transference of possibilities.

11. A spiritual man is one who places utmost value on God’s Word.

12. The Spirit life requires that your desires, appetites and ambitions come under the submission of God’s Will.

God’s Kingdom.

1. It is wrong for Kingdom ambassadors to negotiate with life; we legislate.

2. God makes men peculiar by introducing them to His marvelous light.

3. The anointing backs up the sent Word of God to cause a performance.

4. It takes enlightenment (light) and empowerment (the anointing) to produce results.

5. A track record is what validates you for qualification

6. Everything in God’s kingdom is Faith dependent.

7. The mind of God is a compendium of the infinite wisdom of God.

8. Believers are called to be demonstrators of the reality of God.

9. Stability in God’s Kingdom is gotten by understanding.

10. The more you know God, the more you know yourself.

11. God never trusts people He has not tested.

12. The hidden wisdom of God is engaged by praying in the Spirit.

13. In God’s Kingdom, you rise by the level of light you access and engage.

Relationships

1. Motives, when not properly defined in relationships can result in frustration.

2. All relationships should have clearly defined expectations of behave and contributions.

3. In every relationship, there must be clarity and definitiveness of motives, roles and expectations.

4. True love is a choice. It is an act of your will.

5. Everything in life reproduces on the basis of relationships.

6. Relationship is a stream of income. Pay the price to keep valuable relationships even when it’s ego stinging.

Mentorship

1. The primary purpose of authority is Provision, Protection and Promotion.

2. To be successful, you must submit to God’s scriptural chain of authority.

3. You reproduce the grace at work when you’re genuinely connected.

For more quotes, visit the ministry’s Facebook page KoinoniaEni

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